If there's one thing I absolutely can't stand, it's somebody who pisses on somebody's else's dreams. That's just the worst. Almost as bad, though, is people who let others piss on their dreams. If you're shocked by my choice of words, well, good. Maybe my words will shove you out of your comfort zone. I'm not here to coddle you, remember—I'm your COACH; sometimes I'm gonna make you uncomfortable.
I observe this all the time, people trying to be "helpful," but really just pissing on people for being different, being how God made them, wonderful and magnificent in their unique genius:
"Why are you looking at those brochures for that dance program, Jessica? You need to think about your future."
"Are you out of your mind, Jimmy? I'm not paying for college so you can major in 'special effects.'"